a date can be nerve-wracking and exciting at the same time. In addition, if everything goes well you can turn this data into a second one, and maybe morph into something more… if you catch my drift. So in order to make your first date amazing.
Maybe this tip is a bit ambiguous and probably complicated, but it just means to not be weird. If you have some sort of peculiar things that you probably do with your friends; perhaps the first date is not the right moment to do it. Also, try to avoid going to places where you can communicate well, or ask odd questions.
Show Up On Time
This should be the law. Showing up late gives the wrong impression and it gives the wrong messages to your date. Moreover, try to show up fifteen minutes early; that makes you appear well-prepared and thoughtful. Also, it gives you a bit of time if you need to prepare something for your date. Finally, if something happens to you: CALL HER! Do not text her, and explain the situation.
Dress Well… And Take Pride In Your Appearance
Needless to say, when girls have a date, they want to look their best. So, you need to make your part. It is not necessary to spend many hours deciding what to wear, but dressing up in something clean and crisp will do the trick. And she’ll definitely be impressed to see that you have made the effort to look nice for her too.
Have A Well-Designed Date
This is probably a daunting task. However, choosing a good place can play in your favor. For example, it can help to cut through those nerves by arranging to meet up in familiar territory, making you feel more comfortable. Also, women like to see you can take control. Preparing a data consists mainly of two parts: a meal (a smaller place can be more romantic) and an activity (where you can talk some more).
Giving compliments can be risky, but Flattery always works wonders on a date. Both men and women want to know what the other is thinking, and with a nice compliment, you can say it. It will go even better if you make it specific, like: “I really like that necklace you have on” or “Your nail polish is a pretty color.” Noticing those details is more flattering than giving out a generic line. By the way, even compliments have limits, save your marriage thoughts for later.
Have A Conversation (Don’t Just Talk About Yourself)
If you really want a second date, be sure to have a good conversation. Talking all the time about yourself is a real turn off and come as arrogant. Listen to her point of view, ask her questions about her own achievements and her line of work, and when the moment comes for you to talk about your achievements, elaborate on something only if she asks you to tell her more about it. By doing this, not only will you come off as interesting, you’d appear classier too.
Prepare Your First Date Questions And Conversation Starters
To help you overcome the problem on the tip number 7, be sure to have some questions ready for those moments of silence. Be cautious and avoid talking about things that may make her feel uncomfortable, like parents, exes, expectations from potential partners, and anything else that could make the girl cringe or feel awkward. Some fun choices can be: What are you watching on Netflix? Or, where you would like to travel? And make sure to ask why.
Know If You Should Go For The First Date Kiss
So far so good. The date has been great. Now you are wondering if you should kiss her. This is what most men look forward to. However, don’t force something when it is not present for you. Probably this girl is not ready for that step yet, or she may be shy to initiate it. So a kiss on the cheek, make a real promise for a second date and a compliment for an amazing night, and say goodbye. On the other hand, if you feel like the kiss will be well received, go for it.
Land A Second Date
Don’t play hard to get and don’t wait three whole days to reach her again. Call her or send her a text letting her know what a great night you have, and ask when you can meet up for date number two. If you really like this girl be responsive, be enthusiastic, and be yourself.
Keep in touch
Like the title of this tip says, do not lose touch if you want more dates. It is not necessary to overdo it; just text her or call her every few days, ask her how things are going; make yourself present, even though you have a second or third date planned.